MEDIA MEDIA MEDIA!!!!! (2)

Self Image 

     This aspect of social media has become a great concern for several communities. Self image is the mental image one has of their abilities, appearance and personality
      On the media we encounter a lot of different individuals who are very different from us but one thing most of us forget is that people only put up what they want portrayed never the entire truth or their travails .Social media is that one place we can be who we desire to be but most people take this too far making all that counts to me this way of life forgetting how precious they as a individual are because of this a lot of people have been lured into the belief that they are not good enough or that their lives would not measure up to the standards of the social media community.

Relationships

Over the past years I have heard a lot of stories regarding two people who met via social media by chance, strike up a conversation and it led to an happily ever after  and also for my people in long distance relationships (Kudos to you) have found social media to be a blessing, a great way to keep in touch with people they love until they are able to see them physically. Unfortunately some stories end with more gore. The social media trend according to some studies has raised the rate of dishonesty, distrust and break ups. We have become so engrossed in our life on social media that a lot of us cannot strike up a conversation with others because of this we have let a lot of our relations with people die some people even take it as far as having public confrontations on social media and these feuds are also fueled by the insecurities of other people.

   Just as I stated in my last post I would leave the decision to you my readers . 

Is social media an advantage or a disadvantage?

  We also have to keep in mind that when a great opportunity or asset is abused it becomes worthless or harmful. Keep in mind to know when, what and how to use the gift of social media.

Bible passage for the week 

"Call unto me, and i will answer thee, and show thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not." - Jeremiah 33: 3 (KJV)

THE LADY AND HER LORD: Media Media Media

THE LADY AND HER LORD: Media Media Media: A lot of bloggers, writers and life coaches have written a lot about the growing ravenous craze for social media, some have criticized an...

Media Media Media

A lot of bloggers, writers and life coaches have written a lot about the growing ravenous craze for social media, some have criticized and others have strengthened the importance of these media outlets in our present society.

What is your take on social media, has it become a nuisance or is it an aid? 

      On today's blog I would try to brush up the possible pros and cons of our booming social media and leave you my avid readers to draw conclusions. 

      Over the years we have all noticed how different the media has become how it has become intertwined with the news and our lives. Social media has found its way into our daily activities, has found a home in our securities and insecurities.

News

     We young individuals can attest to the fact that we rarely or never watch the news or read the papers, we find it hard keeping up with the news that concern us directly talk less of world news but with the introduction of social media platforms like social blogs, Facebook, Twitter and the likes we have been able to keep in touch with our surrounding just by the tap of a screen . By making these news accessible us we have been able to tune back into our world, its politics, entertainment and knowledge. But just like all good things there is also the con because this information is very easy to access we also know it is easy to post information and several people have decided to misuse this outlet by posting misinformation's about issues that concern the public and others have even used this medium to slander the names of others.

Connections

     The media has helped a lot of us get back in touch with old contacts, strengthen old friendships and has also helped us build new social connections which is a great advantage to students and individuals of the working class. It is a platform that makes communication easy with others and promotes the idea of friendship in a brand new light. 

      Hmmm as easy as it is to make new contacts so also is it so easy to fall prey to social stalking especially when we give a little too much information on social media forgetting that it is a public platform in which all your information can be viewed publicly (except for those who privatize their accounts).

Intellectual impact 

       As a student I can testify that there are several moments when i have an impeding school task to work on and i would get sidetracked by either a message on Facebook, an update on Instagram or an interesting tweet, I believe this is the story of some other students. Social media has sidetracked a lot of us and we spend so many minutes and even hours just browsing away and this has lead to lower academic grades and lesser commitment in the pursuit of intellect.

       While this has become a problem, we still have students who use social medias judiciously by creating school groups in which they discuss instructive topics and i can also attest to the fact that social media such as YouTube has been used by students to understand school topics much better thanks to those who upload helpful academic videos and even some do it yourself videos for some of us who don't want to pay too much for needed service.

TO BE CONTINUED...

  

Supporting the movement for the extraordinary (2)

         I welcome you all again to my blog and I sincerely apologize for my inability to keep up with my posts due to certain issues. I would try my best to make sure I keep you all updated bi-weekly on new posts and issues that I wish to discuss. Thank you all for your patience.
        Today I would be finalizing our last topic and by God's grace I would also be publishing a new post later on in the week.

Let's start by recapping all that was said on my last post;
       Everyone has the ability to be extraordinary(ability to be above the ordinary) and to turn out successful in their endeavors. I also stated basic steps such as: Finding happiness in what you do and dedication in your line of duty.
       I shall be adding two more basic steps today and I pray that as we follow these steps religiously we all get the pleasant results we desire.

Seek Counsel
   Yes we have to seek advice from others either young or old regardless of how independent we feel we are. I am guilty of always thinking that I can do all on my own and I need nobody ,I am always striving to beat the odds but regardless of how great I feel I am good counsel is always needed. Notice the word "good" meaning not just any kind of counsel but good counsel one that pushes you to reach for the stars and soothes your doubts and weaknesses. Good counsel is what makes the extraordinary individual stand ahead of the ordinary.
Read
   At this point some people are grumbling and complaining that when exactly does the reading end, well the truth is that it doesn't end if you plan to stand ahead. Knowledge is a trait that has to be acquired and it is one that can be passed down not genetically but by others. The best way to acquire knowledge is by reading not just books that are related to our career but also those that expose you to other areas of expertise.
Become an avid reader because books are the least expensive way in which you can explore the world.

Bible verse:
"But i would strengthen you with my mouth, and the comfort of my lips would relieve your grief"- Job 16:5 (NKJV)
Let's all learn to be gentle with our words because they may be the last someone would hear.

I would also love to recommend the book "KITE RUNNER" it is a wonderful book with a view on friendship, servitude and displacement.
                                              Have a wonderful week ahead

THE LADY AND HER LORD: Supporting the movement for the extraordinary

THE LADY AND HER LORD: Supporting the movement for the extrordinary: Extraordinary (1)       Everyone has the ability to be above the ordinary , to bring about the uniqueness required by their environment b...

Supporting the movement for the extraordinary

Extraordinary (1)

      Everyone has the ability to be above the ordinary , to bring about the uniqueness required by their environment but we cannot bring out this potential until we begin to believe in our ability.

     What are the steps to channeling this trait? There is no one path to success neither is there a mapped out strategy for becoming extraordinary irregardless of this idea everything has its basics that should be a compass on our journey of empowerment. The basics is the key to turning out a success while exploring your extraordinary self. What is success? This question has had several fleeting answers and this is my answer. Success is not characterized by the amount you own or how far ahead you are in life but by how much you have influenced those around you . Since we have more knowledge on success we can now explore the basics.

Find happiness
      Yes we have all heard this at one point or another; That you choose a career that makes you happy but most of us end up choosing where the money is. The reason for this advice is that once you are happy with what you do everyday, you remain fulfilled. It is better to have a low paying job that you are always eager to get to than to have a job that produces millions but you have no passion to rise up each morning for. When you are happy and fulfilled in your line of work you begin to think beyond the ordinary and produce results an average person would not thereby giving room for the extraordinary and recognition for your ability.

Dedication
  Note: Just because you have chosen what you are passionate about does not mean it is all going to be a bed of roses No! There will be trials, moments when you want to quit, times you wonder if it is all worth it but if you are dedicated you will pull through all these challenges it might take time but your dedication to fulfilling your passion will make you stand out extraordinarily despite all the trials.

Bible passage: I will go before you and make the crooked places straight; I will break in pieces the gate of bronze and cut the bars of iron. I will give you the treasures of darkness and hidden riches of secret places ,that you may know that I, the Lord, Who you call you by your name, Am the God of Israel {Isaiah 45:2-3} .

To read: I will also recommend for the ladies a wonderful book i came across "God where is my Boaz" by Stephan Labossiere which you can purchase online at www.stephanspeaks.com 

The Root (2)

 

    Can a lasting relationship stay strong without trust? This is a question that has crossed our minds at one point or another in our relationship most especially when you find the substance of trust lacking. and my simple answer is no. why you might ask; trust is one of the major driving force behind any relationship without this force most of your efforts will remain static.

   The power of the element of trust has been taken for granted by many regardless of its deep meaning. To trust someone is to believe in them, their actions and most importantly their decisions. When one is bestowed with the responsibility of being trusted one is required to hold its balance by never betraying it no matter what.

  In a relationship the term "Trust" should not be taken lightly because this whole idea becomes the foundation that strengthens your relationship through the many hurdles you would encounter. Yes, hurdles. Every relationship faces hurdles that they would encounter simply because there are no perfect relationships with this said let me broaden the meaning of a relationship. A relationship is the coming together of two imperfect people to uphold the promise of love , respect and also to continually cherish one other.

 What's the reason for trust you ask; Trust helps build a standard in your relationship where you and your partner are accountable for your actions.This level of responsibility is a standard that if maintained results in discipline and growth.

 With this said we should thrive to maintain trust in whatever relationship we go into either personal or official.

Bible verse

"All are justified and made upright and in right standing with God, freely and gratuitously by his grace through the redemption which is in Christ Jesus" Romans 3:24 [Amplified Bible]