In our current reality it might seem like everyone is dating and enjoying the bliss called love but the question I ask myself sometimes is am I just looking through rose colored glasses or is it all just self pity that makes me see what isn't really there.
Yes it can be pretty hard being single especially when all you see sometimes are cute pictures of couples or epistles that couples write to themselves. It just makes you feel like can the next guy just walk by and I fall in love already but trust me that's what you don't want to do because you might just end up badly burnt and baby girl or boy those scars take a while to heal.
In this single season of mine (yes it is but a season because status would still change ), I have taken it up as a piority to work on myself, repair those nicks that could turn into huge cracks later on, build myself up spiritually and I can go on and on.
As usual I don't have all the answers as this is a path I just began a while ago and I hope to find what I deserve at the long run with God on my side, you might ask so what is the purpose of all my story it's just to let you know wherever you are or whomever you might be that you are not alone everyone at one point faces the single season. My advise is this ENJOY your single season, get to know you,make some changes, start that project you've been putting off and lastly love that creature that is you entirely. If while doing this you fall in love and you are ready by all means go for it and enjoy every second.
For me I'm about to enjoy my winter season (single) with my teddy bears, cups of hot chocolate with marshmallows, hangouts with friends, maybe join a gym (hopefully) and as you know read a lot of books.
Love you guys even though I don't know when next I'll be back here but stay tuned
